There’s no fixed amount—spend what fits your budget. The average engagement ring in the U.S. costs around $5,500, but many people spend less or more based on preference and financial comfort.
The “3-month rule” is a marketing idea suggesting you should spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring. It’s not a rule—just spend what feels right for you and your partner.
No, $1000 is not too cheap—what matters is the meaning behind the ring, not having the most expensive engagement ring. Many beautiful and meaningful rings are available within this budget, especially with lab-grown or alternative gemstones. Spend within your means.
In most Western cultures, the engagement ring is worn on the left hand’s ring finger, the same finger used for the wedding ring.
Yes, guys wear engagement rings too. While it’s less traditional, more men now choose to wear one as a symbol of commitment before marriage. Styles for men’s engagement rings are often simpler and more masculine in design.
No, they are usually different. The engagement ring is given during the proposal and often features a central gemstone. The wedding ring (or band) is exchanged during the ceremony and is usually a simpler band worn together with the engagement ring.
On the wedding day, the wedding band is placed first (closer to the heart), and the engagement ring is worn above it on the same finger.
Yes, most people wear their engagement ring on the wedding day. Some temporarily move it to the right hand during the ceremony to allow the wedding band to be placed first.
To buy an engagement ring, consider your partner’s style, preferred metal (like gold or platinum), and gemstone type (such as diamond or birthstone). Set a budget, choose a reputable jeweler, and decide whether you want a ready-made or custom ring. Comfort, quality, and personal meaning all matter.
Yes, a birthstone engagement ring is a meaningful and unique choice, especially for couples looking for personalization or non-diamond engagement ring options.
Soak the ring in warm water with mild dish soap, gently brush with a soft toothbrush, then rinse and dry with a lint-free cloth. For deeper cleaning, use professional services occasionally.